Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Catching Up

So much to write about and so little time.  We had a lovely Thanksgiving weekend.  It was great to have so many days to be lazy and mellow.  Thursday we went to my parents with my brother, Christian, his wife, Rebecca, and their two kids, and my nephew, David (is from TN but is attending college here).  The food was fabulous – I should have taken a picture.    Mom and Dad took the kids out to play in the leaves which they loved.  Christian, Rebecca, David, Brennan and Eliza and I played Wits and Wagers.  Such a fun game!  Soon Ryan and Macy and their kids, and Davis and Melissa joined us.  We had pie and mellow conversation.  The lightweights then went to bed (and sweet Brennan took our kids home to bed) so we hardcores could play more Wits and Wagers.  I even won once!!!!  We wrapped up at a very reasonable midnight. 

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I decided the night was still young, or technically morning, so I headed to Target and Walmart to see if I could get any deals.  I found a few things I wanted at Target and waited in line for about 3 minutes before I decided it wasn’t worth the wait.  Walmart was sold out of everything I wanted there so I went home and crawled into bed by about 1.  The next morning I found everything I needed for the same price online.  What a waste!  Oh well.

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Benny showing us his very first loose tooth!

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Joshy smuggled the swedish fish downstairs and he and Amelia couldn’t have been happier in their little fort.

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This is my darling newest nephew, Eli Ryan.  Isn’t he DARLING?  A highlight of the day was holding him while he was wide awake. 

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On Friday we hung out at my parents’ some more and the kids played games.  We all met up later that day for a big movie outing.  We saw and LOVED the Muppet movie.  The k  ids all loved it and so did the grown-ups. 

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After the movie, my Mom fed us all AGAIN!  Then we headed out to an extended family gathering with my Mom’s side of the family.  My one uncle who lives out of state was in town with all of his kids.  They did a talent show and icecream sundaes.  It was great!  Except I left my brand new camera and cell phone there.  Fortunately my cousin, Steph and her husband found it.  When we got it back it had a few extra photos of them on it.  Cracked me up.

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Saturday the kids played with friends and I shopped til I dropped.  Brennan was happy with football games galore.  What a happy, Thanksgiving weekend.  We have everything to be grateful for!

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Home Beans and Cown Nuts

The other day as the kids were walking home from school, Ben kept running ahead of the group.  Taking her job as oldest and therefore boss seriously, Abby, kept calling him back.  He was wearing a blue shirt so she said playfully, “Come back here, you little Smurf!”  He turned around and said indignantly, “I’m a home bean child!”.  We’re pretty sure he meant, “human being”.

On one of our many road trips down South, we discovered Joshy’s undying love for Corn Nuts.  I know, gross; however, they keep him occupied and happy for long stretches of road so we’ve made our peace with giving our 2 year old Corn Nuts.  He calls them “cown nuts”.   Last night Anna was rocking Josh before putting him to bed.  She sang him a song and then asked him to sing to her.  He started singing an original song that went something like this:  “I lub Daddy, I lub Mommy, I lub cown nuts.”  I’m just so glad I got listed before cown nuts.

Monday, October 31, 2011

Happy Halloween!

Once I have all the kids’ costumes figured out and done I get so excited and then after getting them all dressed up 3 times I’m ready to be done.  It was all fun though.  I was especially in love with how Joshy’s turned out.  Have I mentioned how much he loves Mickey Mouse Clubhouse?  Well, he does – turns out Mickey taught Joshy how to count to 10.  The sad thing is when we discovered Josh could count to 10 I knew it must be from Mickey.  These last kids gotta get what they can from whoever they can, right?  Today we got to go to Grandpa’s work for a fun lunch and trick-or-treating at the Capitol. 

We found Minnie there and had to get the two together.

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The kids got lots of candy and then we headed home for a nap for Josh.  It was such a beautiful Halloween, the kids have been outside playing all day.  I don’t remember very many Halloweens with such gorgeous weather. 

After some yummy chili we put our candy on the porch and headed out trick-or-treating.  Anna went with Chloe and some other friends, Abby went with her friends so it was just us and the boys.  Nate’s friend, Kade, came with us.

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It was such a fun Fall night.

 

 

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Abby always knows exactly what she wants to be.  You can’t tell from the photo, but she insisted that she be lit up, so there are actually little battery candles inside that look pretty cool in the dark.

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Nate was Zombie Soccer Player, he did his own makeup and took it very seriously

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Cute Ben was Dash from The Incredibles movie.  If you know Ben, you know that Dash is kind of perfect for our exuberant, speedy little guy.

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Last, but certainly not least is Josh who as I already mentioned was Mickey Mouse.

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Sunday, October 30, 2011

Party Girls

 

Evidently we’ve officially reached the pouty lip pose phase.

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These two cute girls threw quite a bash Friday night.  They did it all on their own and worked SO hard to pull it all off.  I think it was a success, all we know is there was a gaggle of giggly, goofy, girly girls up and down our stairs all night.  Here are some photos of the food they prepared and some of their décor:

Here’s their cute banner they made and a pumpkin balloon dart game

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One of their friends brought this creepy snack and the apple mouths are the other thing Anna and Chloe made.

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It was really funny to me that these two 13 years olds have already taken things to a whole new level I would never even imagine doing, let alone actually do all that.

Friday, October 28, 2011

Update

I’ve had such an appreciation for Brennan lately.  He’s the best.  He worries a lot about supporting this motley crew of ours and he worries about how to help me and the kids with all we have going on.  I love watching him enjoy the kids, he’s pretty open about when they’re driving him crazy, but he’s also pretty transparent about when he’s proud of them or when he thinks they’re the smartest, cutest, funniest things on the planet.  I love how tenderhearted he is.  I also love that he’ll talk to me and laugh with me and laugh at himself.  We got laughing so hard the other night, we could not stop for like 20-25 minutes.  It was one of the best things ever.   We love Brennan.

I was finally released as our ward choir director.  My first reaction was complete jubilation.  The next week I led them for the last time and was completely filled with sadness and appreciation for that whole experience.  It was one of those callings that I was honestly incapable of, but through many tender mercies and many talented, patient people it was overall a good experience, and in my humble opinion – we had a great little choir.  Mostly it taught me that we truly can do anything the Lord asks of us.

Anna is just wrapping up her soccer season and starting her indoor soccer season.  It’s been such a beautiful Fall, they never had to cancel or postpone one game due to weather.  That’s kind of amazing.   How great is it to have an excuse to sit in beautiful weather watching your daughter and her friends do something they love and are good at.  She’s on a comp team this year and it’s been a blast.   It always cracks people up watching her be so tough because she’s so delicate looking.  She’s a sweet girl, she loves her siblings and we’re so grateful for all she does to help us with them.  She’s enjoying school right now, even math – yay!  She loves being in Young Women’s and is currently completely consumed with planning a Halloween party with her bff, Chloe.  We love Anna.

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Abigail is probably the busiest,  she’s involved in a lot, but it never overwhelms me because she just kind of takes care of everything she needs to take care of.  She and Anna are doing this musical theatre workshop and loving it.  I can’t wait to see their performance in a few weeks.  In my last post I mentioned that Abby gets a little crazy, for example, she has this funny dramatic streak in her that doesn’t always make sense but is always entertaining.  The other day she was playing with Joshy and they were in a little tent thing and as Anna walked up to them she heard Abby say to Josh “Cub Josephina, you have much to learn.”  I know you’re confused, so are we, but it cracks us up anyway.  Abby is often found with Joshy, she takes such good care of him.  We love Abigail.

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Nate got a new bike and the two are rarely seen without the other.   When he’s not on his bike he’s telling me how much he needs football receiving gloves.  His cousin, Rex, has some and evidently every football player on tv.  He cracks me up when he gets obsessed about something, he was home sick one day and wanted to talk about those gloves to me all day.  He sometimes gets a little distracted at school so I’m always asking him how he’s doing in school and if he’s getting in trouble.  More often than not his answer is something along these lines: well, so and so said or did something SO funny (usually funny things like burping etc) that I had to laugh and then I got in trouble.  He’s such a cute little guy who loves to laugh, I love that about him – his teachers probably don’t love that about him.  He’s completely devoted to Joshua and the devotion is mutual.  What a cute little pair, Joshy is always asking for Nate.  We love Nate.

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The other day we were driving in rush-hour traffic to one of Anna’s games.  Benny spoke up and said, “This sure is traffic, I say!”  He has the cutest little way of saying grown-up things in such a reassuringly 5 year old way.  He loves school.  Actually, I’m not sure if it’s school he loves or just  that he’s reached that very grown-up threshold of big-kidness.  Anyway, he’s always on the hunt for “top box’s” (box tops) and is more than happy to do homework.  He has become a little less patient about running errands and doing anything else of my bidding, I think he finds it a little insulting given his Kindergarten status.  He too got a new bike and he and his best little friend, Will, have worked out a system of one of them watching to see if there are cars coming and sounding the “all clear” so the other one can streak down our very steep driveway, into the cul-de-sac across the street.  We love Benjamin.

(One of our go-to games for FHE is our version of “charades”.  We just basically act like anything we want to and everyone tries to figure it out.  This was a clever little thing Ben came up with to mimic a duck)

Joshua has taken 2 to new heights.  He can be the most adorable little creature you ever did see and then two seconds later a little madman.  He is for the most part, good-natured, but he is also very opinionated.  He also benefits from older siblings and has learned a few opinions and dramatic declarations from some pretty masterful teachers.  Today he was in time-out and when I opened his door so he could come out he yelled “Get out” and slammed his door shut again.  It’s actually kind of sad, but for some reason it struck me so funny that my 2 year old just told me to “get out.”  He is currently obsessed with Mickey Mouse.  It’s his favorite show and the only one he’ll watch.  He loves his grandparents and talks about them all the time.  He loves his siblings and his friend, Daisy.  He repeats EVERYTHING he hears the big kids say.  Ben will say, “Mom is that truck carrying furniture?” and then Joshy having know idea what he’s saying will ask me the exact same thing and demand to be taken seriously.  We love Joshua.

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I’m loving this little family of ours.  We have lots of things to work on, but I’m pretty happy to be working on them with these particular people.

One more video, of some of the kids having a good time.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Fall Break

We had such a great trip down South over our Fall Break.  Thursday, I very bravely drove all the kids by myself so Brennan could just meet us there from his business trip to further down South.  Other than the extra hour due to traffic and then another hour due to Wendy’s we finally made it and the kids were actually really good.   It was especially great to be reunited with Brennan Thursday night after missing him for a few days.  We stayed, of course, with Brennan’s Mom and Stepdad, Jamie and John.  Poor John is fighting his way back from a nasty bout of pneumonia and so they’ve both been homebound for a few months.  Friday John and I stayed behind while Brennan and his Mom loaded the kids up and braved another drive (just over an hour) with all the kids out to visit Brennan’s Uncle Dixon and Aunt Lana.  They’re the best.  Dixon has a new museum with all kinds of great Native American artifacts.  The kids loved it.  Then they were treated to a barbecue lunch and some 4 wheelers.   Of course, Lana had cute little Halloween treats on hand that the kids were more than happy to take of her hands.  Brennan’s brother, Brett, and his girlfriend, Julie came too.  The kids love Brett, and were so excited to get to meet Julie.  They also got to meet up with Brennan’s aunt, Elaine and her husband, Russell.  I was sad to miss them all, but loved having a day to sleep, read and shop and then was treated to dinner by John with his daughter, Emily, and her son, Sheldon.

They stopped a few times to do some exploring

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Russell, Elaine, Brett, Brennan, Joshy, Anna

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Anyway, we reunited after dinner for a mellow evening and tired kids.  Saturday morning we got up and went on a great hike, and then went out to lunch and to our favorite old-fashioned candy store.  Brennan went home with Joshy for naps (and football games) while I took to the 4 big kids over to my Uncle and Aunt’s condo where my parents happened to be staying, for a swim.  We came home for a lovely home-cooked meal by Jamie and then went out for frozen yogurt.  Sunday, we caravanned home with my parents (which really means we stuck them with three kids Winking smile).  It was great, Brennan and I were able to chat almost the whole way home. 

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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

A Word About Older Kids

I’ve been one of those Mom’s who has kind of fretted about what I’d do when I didn’t have any little ones around.  I still think I will always miss not having little ones around when that day comes; however, I have made a discovery – older kids are a lot of fun.  Maybe that is obvious to most people, but when I thought about older kids I thought about the drama and ups and downs of teenage years, rebelliousness, relationships etc.  The thing I failed to realize is that there is a lot that’s fun about those years too.  Granted my kids are still on the young side of older, but lately we have had so much fun with the girls.   It’s so fun to introduce them to things I loved.  Anna watched “Emma” awhile ago and I got to re-live falling in love with everything Austen.  They are the first to notice a new haircut or something new I’m wearing. 

It’s also fun to watch them get good at things, to find their niche in life and really start to get excited and good at it.   They are hilarious, no one can get Brennan laughing like Anna can.  She has such a spontaneous, fun, funny personality and her observations about her life in junior high are usually very entertaining.   Abby too, every now and then she gets this wild look in her eye and everything out of her mouth is CRAZY and loves to laugh at herself.   She also has a way of cutting right to the heart of the matter in a very funny way.  They’ve learned how to tease and mimic us, mostly Brennan, without being disrespectful.  It kills us.  I’m sure we’re in for plenty of roller coaster rides as we transition into these years ahead, but the fun part is that we’re really liking the humans our kids are turning out to be.