Abigail Turns 8!!!

A happy girl from the beginning.

Always cute.

Now she's 8! Happy Birthday, Abby!

Today is Abby's birthday. I took this picture this morning after she opened her presents. She has been wanting eyeglasses so badly and even found some in the American Girl catalog for her doll and begged for those. She dragged me to the dollar store one day and wanted to buy some of those bifocals, but I wouldn't let her because I wasn't sure they'd be good for her eyes. She was devastated. With a tip from my sister, I found a pair of fake eyeglasses and knew they would make her birthday perfect. She could not be more thrilled.

Now let me wax sentimental about this sweet daughter of ours. Abby plays such an important function in our home. She is my go-to girl, she's totally dialed in and so helpful. She's naturally very nurturing and so takes great care of her younger brothers. She takes rules seriously and tries her hardest to be obedient. She's emotional, sometimes even volatile, but always the first to be sorry when she knows she's gone too far.

More than all she does for each of us, she's a unique fun girl who we all love to be around. She's full of contradictions. She can be extremely shy or the life of the party. She is hilarious and can have us all laughing with her wit and funny observations or she can be quite sober and thoughtful. One of the things those who know her best often observe is that she has wisdom beyond her years. I can't tell you how often I've overheard her boiling something pretty profound and advanced down so simply and sweetly to a sibling or friend or even Brennan or me. When the girls were probably about 3 and 5 they were playing a game. It wasn't going Anna's way and she was getting worked up into a full blown tantrum. Abby watched for a moment and and then said, "It's not that hawd (hard), Anna. It's dus (just) a game." She also has a natural sense of tact and can say things directly without being blunt or offensive. My Dad's favorite Abby story is when she was probably about 3 or 4 and we were all at my parents' house eating dinner. I can't remember for sure, but I think Abby was wanting something we had told her no on several times. She spoke up again and addressed my Dad, but Brennan had had it and came down on her for asking again. She let him say his piece and then politely, but assertively said, "Axowey (actually), Dad, I wasn't talking to you."

One day at a random little bookstore I found these little prints with a name and it's meaning. They were exactly like the ones my mom had given each of my siblings and me when we were young. I felt so lucky when I actually found each of my kids' names plus Benjamin (this was before he was born) because I knew I would have a Ben someday. Anyway, Abigail's says "Source of Joy" That, my friends, sums it perfectly up. We can't even begin to express our love and gratitude for this amazing spirit that resides in our little 8 year old Abigail Jo. We love Abby!

Photo Update

Monday night we went to my brother's house for a great joint Family Home Evening with my parents and sister and her kids. Ryan taught a great lesson about how Heavenly Father wants us to be happy and how we are happy when we are doing right. They then divided us up into three groups and each group had a topic like, "I am happy when I obey" and we created and performed a puppet show. It was so cute. Then we had a yummy treat and stayed way past the kids' bedtimes. Good times.





The next photos are all from yesterday. Anna had her friend, Chloe, over and Abby had her friend, Paige, here. Anna and Chloe quickly got settled into the art room where whenever I walked in they would hide what they were doing. I told them that wasn't inspiring a great deal of confidence in me, but they quickly reassured me that they were just making a surprise for me. A little while later they brought me these:

These are little birth announcements they made, one for a girl, one for a boy.

Anna made this girl name list.

Chloe made this boy name one.

They know we're struggling with names, so they came up with these lists to help us out. Very sweet.

After they finished their lists, they then enlisted Abby and Paige as models and they each created an outfit for each of their models and then, of course, had a fashion show.

The models working it.

I know I post a lot about the things my kids make. It's because I think they are geniuses and way more artistic than anybody else's children. I promise I don't really think that, okay maybe a little. These are just the types of things I want documented because I think it will be so much fun for them to look back at what they did at this age.

Update

I'm sure many of you are dying with suspense to know if Brennan won his work contest. YES, he did!!!! That means we get to go on a trip on the company - woo hoo! Thank you so much company, what a great contest. Brennan is so happy, he worked really hard and knows he was really blessed. My mom kept asking if we knew if he'd won yet and mentioned that she was praying for him. Those poor other guys didn't stand a chance with my Mom's prayers in the mix. We love Brennan!

I'm finally feeling a little better and am so grateful to feel like myself again, even my very flawed self! With each of my pregnancies along with the excitement, anticipation and joy comes a little mourning period for the current baby. Maybe this is universal, maybe I'm just really strange I don't know, but I have a bit of sadness and tenderness for my little Ben right now knowing his days of being my baby are numbered. I remember feeling the same way about Anna, Abby and Nate when I was expecting their younger sibling. Fortunately I strongly believe that giving them a sibling is pretty great compensation for being dethroned as the baby of the family. My siblings are among my greatest blessings which makes me happy for my kids to have another. For now, I'll enjoy every minute of baby Ben and when new baby comes we'll all make room and be thrilled to welcome him or her.

I have mentioned many times how sweet and helpful Anna is, but there is another role she has in our family which she takes very seriously - a big, gigantic, merciless tease. She thrives on hiding in closets and jumping out and scaring her little scaredy-pants siblings to near death. Every time she hears a scream she is overcome with satisfaction and pride. There are many other ways she loves to tease and torment her siblings. We are cracking down on her for these offences, even though I know it's part of the childishness that I love to see in her as she gets so old. She never intends to be cruel, but if you've heard my kids scream you'll understand why we are attempting to put a stop to this. She also has great sway over the kids because of all of them she is by far the best saver. She still has Halloween candy and is constantly using that to gain little advantages. For example if Nate will go and sit on the heater in his room and let her have the family room one she'll give him 2 pieces of candy. Oh dear. We love Anna.

Abigail will turn 8 years old on Friday. Today is her big VIP day at school where we bring in a poster all about her and a treat for each of classmates. She is SO EXCITED. I took her the store where she painstakingly picked the treat and the poster color. I'm supposed to share a funny story about her and I told her several which she carefully weighed and then selected the one she felt was best. I took her shopping to buy some new clothes with her birthday money from Grandpa John and Grandma Jamie and she new exactly what she wanted and exactly what she didn't want. When we got home Anna was so excited and immediately asked if she could borrow some of her brand new clothes. In typical generous Abby fashion she quickly and enthusiastically agreed. We love Abigail.

Brennan bought this little remote control helicopter that he has had to replace like 3 times because they keep breaking. Anyway, it's Nate's favorite thing in the entire world and he's earned Brennan's complete trust in his ability to play with it without ruining it. He is always on hand when any of the other kids use it and competently directs them to pull back or push up on the controls to save the helicopter from another disaster. He has honestly spent hours and hours with this toy. Oh, and today he informed me that he and Rex have a crush on my brother's future wife, Melissa. We love Nate.

Benjamin went with Brennan and the kids to a basketball game the other night and when they came home he immediately noticed the fire in the fireplace. One of his favorite things is to watch Brennan start a fire (we actually have to do more than turn on a switch). So when he noticed the fire and realized I had been the only one home he looked at me with surprise and said, "Mom, your build a fire all by yoursewf?" I think I went up like 10 notches in his book. Every time one of his siblings asks to play with a friend, Benny immediately asks, "Mom, can I play wif Abey?" Abe is his cousin that he loves. I usually say something like, "Maybe later, we'll have to see." but he usually remembers to follow up later saying, "So can I go to Abey's?" We love Benjamin.

Creative Juices Are Flowing

(Editor's note: I was going to warn you that this post really won't be interesting to you unless you are perhaps a grandparent, but then I realized that applies to the majority of my posts, so I'm not going to warn you, just remember this is my journal and you are welcome to be bored to tears.) We are thrilled to announce that Brennan and I finally tackled the den and created an arts and crafts room for the kids. I get my dining room back - yay!!!!

I should have taken a "before" picture, because without that you just won't understand what a feat this was. First of all, clear back in like August when I was called as choir director the former choir director brought a huge filing cabinet and a room full of music. I tried to re-organize the music and put it in big bankers boxes, so then we had bankers boxes, huge filing cabinet and other choir stuff. Then every time we weren't totally sure where to put something, it went into the den. Shortly after that we had our carpets cleaned and because the den sort of hooks onto our bedroom (separated by sliding doors) we put our bedroom couches in there too. We decided we loved our room sans couches and the inevitable clutter that piled up on them, so we left them in the den.

Yesterday we tackled it all. Goodbye old couches, goodbye filing cabinet, bankers boxes, old computer and bags and bags and bags of garbage. Goodbye and good riddance. Since we moved our computer into the family room a couple of years ago, the den has been largely unused except for as a dump. We are so excited to be utilizing this great space with built in desks and shelves and cabinets. We're also excited that people won't walk into our living room and see mounds of creativity piled on the dining room table.

The best part is how excited the kids are. They each have a drawer where they can store their projects and supplies, plus I've promised I'll buy plenty of new art supplies for them now that we have somewhere to put them. The downside is we have hardly seen the girls since, but they have already produced some fabulous works of art. The boys have also spent a fair amount of time in there. It was fun to create such a fun change without spending one penny.

Brennan gets the top shelves for his important things :)

The happy artists

Abby has to bring something she made for show and tell this week and decided she wanted to bring something 3-d, so she came up with this flower in a pot.

Both girls made "pocket buddies" which is basically just a little girl they each drew and then laminated by wrapping it in scotch tape which they keep in their pocket all day. Today they worked on creating homes for their buddies.

The pictures are sideways, but here's Abby's

Here's Anna's

Celebrity!

Anna went to a birthday party tonight where she's supposed to dress up like a celebrity either past or present. We went with one from the past, any guesses?

Potpourri

So the other day we were discussing baby names. I was trying to think of some biblical boy names and mentioned the name "Luke." Nate immediately piped up saying, "Yeah, or Obi or Chewy!" (As in Obi Wan Kenobi and Chewbacca) Let's hope we have a girl so Nate won't be devastated when we don't name our baby Obi or Chewy.

My cute nieces, Belle and Molly at the Children's Museum

A cozy group in front of the fire when Oliver was visiting.


Ben's latest get-up. A bucket that serves as a helmet and a dartless dart gun.

Update

Happy January! This week has been really nice to really slow things down and just be mellow. I love all the coming and going and hustle and bustle and visiting family, but I do need some down-time afterwards.


There's been a LOT of football on at our house and I've learned to mostly tune it out, I've read a lot of books lately. However, last night's Sugar Bowl was so exciting even I got into it. Brennan sent us to the store to get some snacks and we came home and all watched the game. The kids were into it too, it was fun. Brennan also took the kids to a skating rink earlier in the day and gave me a nice big break. What a guy! He's been working really hard lately to try and win a contest at work for a trip. We hope he won, but won't be sure 'til next week. Either way, I'm really proud of him for all his hard work. We love Brennan!

New Years' Eve we had two of my siblings and their families over, Chris, Rebecca and Oliver and Josh, Eliza, Abe and Belle. Once we got the kids to bed we happened to stumble on ESPN who was showing some truck and motorcycle crazies doing death-defying stunts. We, of course, had to watch it. I must admit it was exciting and happily no one died. After that we watched a movie. It was really low-key, but really fun. Chris and Rebecca and Oliver drove home the next day and we are missing them already. New Years' Day was really nice, Ben took a huge nap and during that the big kids and their friends and I played Uno and Skip-Bo. It's so fun to have kids old enough to really play with. That's one of my favorite things to do.

Anna has been really busy with her friends. We're so grateful she's got two of the sweetest girls as her best friends. She is such a blessing to have as our oldest child. Right now she is downstairs patiently facilitating and playing polly pockets with Abby, Nate and Ben. She always manages to make a little twist to make it more fun for Nate and Ben, like the other day they played "Star Wars polly pockets." We love Anna.

Abigail has also been enjoying her school vacation with friends. Abby had my whole family laughing hard with her latest infomercial impression: Snuggies. She and I happened to see this infomercial for a blanket with sleeves. We both cracked up and when I brought it up later, she of course repeated it word for word in the best "infomercial voice" ever. She has a natural sense of what is funny and a great ability to mimic. She can always get us laughing. We love Abby.

Last night in the middle of the football game, Nate said, "Dad, thank you so so much for taking us rollerskating and letting us watch this football game." It was his perfect day and he never forgets to be grateful for things like that. He'll often walk by me and hug me saying, "I love you, Mom." It was fun to play Uno with him and see how old and smart he's gotten. He totally knew what to do and had no trouble with the numbers. We love Nate.

Benjamin has been particularly colorful lately. He was singing a song while jumping on my bed, but before he began he yelled, "Let's do this thing!" Brennan has a bad shoulder and the other day slipped on some ice which caused him to jerk it and really hurt. The kids all saw and ever since then every time the kids are wrestling or rough housing Ben usually grabs his shoulder and says, "Oh! My Shoulder!" There are so many things he says and does that get us laughing. The thing is it's not that what he says and does are particularly funny, it's just funny because they are things you don't typically see or hear from a 2 year old. He just doesn't get that he's two. We love Benny.